The Challenges and Opportunities of Midlife
How does a person manage change when it comes for them?
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In a 2019 article, Arthur C. Brooks delivered some bad news: “If your profession requires mental processing speed or significant analytic capabilities—the kind of profession most college graduates occupy—noticeable decline is probably going to set in earlier than you imagine.”
How does a person manage professional decline when it comes for them—and, for that matter, the many other changes that midlife may bring? One idea that Brooks landed on in his research: a reverse bucket list. “My goal for each year of the rest of my life should be to throw out things, obligations, and relationships until I can clearly see my refined self in its best form,” he writes. Today’s newsletter explores the challenges and the opportunities of midlife.
On Midlife
Your Professional Decline Is Coming (Much) Sooner Than You Think
By Arthur C. Brooks
Here’s how to make the most of it. (From 2019)
The Real Roots of Midlife Crisis
By Jonathan Rauch
What a growing body of research reveals about the biology of human happiness—and how to navigate the (temporary) slump in middle age (From 2014)
The Two Choices That Keep a Midlife Crisis at Bay
By Arthur C. Brooks
Middle age is an opportunity to find transcendence.
Still Curious?
- Why making friends in midlife is so hard: “I thought I was done dating. But after moving across the country, I had to start again—this time, in search of platonic love,” Katharine Smyth writes.
- How an 18th-century philosopher helped solve my midlife crisis: In 2006, I was 50—and I was falling apart,” Alison Gopnik writes.
Other Diversions
- Alexandra Petri: So, what did I miss?
- Another side of modern fatherhood
- The cowardice of live-action remakes
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